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Working with Teams - NLP Article by Jonathan Altfeld

One of the things I occasionally do in consulting is work with teams of people. And a lot of teams don't communicate together as well as they could, so they're not always as successful together as they might be.

I learned a lot about teams before getting into NLP, and then I learned a lot more. And I know there's even a lot more to learn still! I learned a lot this very week from some of the others posting in these forums!

NLP Technique for Charismatic connections - Article by Jonathan Altfeld

Interested in NLP techniques for gaining increased closeness and charisma, or improving rapport in working relationships?

Accepting Feedback From Others Gracefully - NLP Article

This email was in response to someone who was describing their having had a negative emotional reaction to receiving some criticism.


All information like this is feedback! We can learn from all feedback, "good" or "bad," so from the perspective of learning useful information, there is NO good or bad criticism, just, certain quantities of varying feedback. Which is all good!

Mirroring Breathing for Profound NLP Rapport - NLP Article

    One of the things we study in NLP is how to get deeper rapport with people, which helps you more effectively click with absolutely anybody. NLP is probably the source of most great rapport training available.

    This includes methods for establishing or getting rapport initially, building or enhancing or deepening rapport, maintaining rapport over time, and then, when the time comes, elegantly reducing rapport so as to disconnect from a situation, but still maintaining the relationship.

Backing-Down from Flamebait - NLP How-To Article

Have you ever been baited into undesirable arguments?

I've had several prime opportunities to manage my state in the face of really tempting "bait" to continue an argument in too heated a fashion, and in doing so, likely giving away information I might not want to give away, or say something I might regret. Have any of you had a challenge in this area?

In 2 out of 3 of these specific cases recently, I came out on top. The third case (at the time this was written) is still ongoing, and so far, I'm pleased with my progress.

Asking Those Bad Dreams Away... Positive thinking NLP Technique - NLP Article

      Recently my 5-year-old daughter reported having had a few bad dreams. This further led to some less-than-desirable behavior around bedtime before she went to bed, and then, some resistance to drifting down into a comfortable sleep at a good time.

NLP Article: Struggling with the NLP Spelling Strategy - Teaching my 5-Year-Old to Spell

Sept 25 2003

      Want to teach your kids good spelling habits? Or rapidly correct early bad spelling habits? Phonics works, but only with SIMPLE words. English is NOT a Phonic Language!

Staying Focused in Conversations - NLP Article

The following post was written in 1998 about someone who described being so involved in their own internal and external dialogue that other people simply faded away -- and this prevented them being able to sustain any calibration efforts towards other people in conversation.

Improving Behavior with Varying Levels of NLP Techniques - NLP Article

I have found myself (and my clients) ;) dramatically enhancing behavior by practicing varying levels of NLP skills in cycles. I'd be interested to know if others have experienced similar things!

By this, I mean, I'll approach an issue that I'd like to resolve (or for which I want to arrive at a unique solution), and instead of only attempting one thing, and stopping when I get one solution, I'll apply cyclically varying levels of knowledge/skill to the issue.

Synesthesia and NLP Exercises: NLP Article

This article is for you, if you've ever had difficulty with NLP exercises, &/or, with experiencing Synesthesia.

Hi [name omitted]!

You ask very good questions, by the way, in your email. Not everyone "just gets" all this naturally. As far as they consciously know.

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