How Anyone Can Become Outrageously Successful With The Opposite Sex!

How Anyone Can Become
Outrageously Successful With The Opposite Sex!
2 World-Class Experts On Flirting &
Relationships Revealed Their Secrets!
Now You Can Easily Attract
Desirable New Friends & Lovers!
We held the FLIRTOPIA™ Seminar in September 2000, and made some gorgeous Home-Study videos from that event. Finally Available on DVD!
Here's Just Some Of What was Taught & Learned at the FLIRTOPIA™ seminar:
- How to Radiate An Irresistible Presence
- How to Be Comfortable In Any Social Situation
- How to Read Other People's "Signals" To Minimize Rejection
- How to Use Eye Contact To Experience Intimacy In A Non-Direct Sexual Way
- How to Use Your Own Sexual Energy To Attract Lovers Almost Magically
- How to Discover The Rules For People's Personal Space, & Break Them!
- How to Become a "Super Bio-Feedback System" To Give Others What They Want
Dear Flirting Enthusiast (or Future Flirting Enthusiast!),
Over 65% of us find it difficult to communicate with each other in social and business situations. When it comes to interacting with the opposite sex, that figure is even higher. Yet...
Your Happiness is directly proportional to the quality of Your Relationships!
Finally, there is a program that was designed, based on a combination of powerful disciplines, to help you excel in this area of your life. Whether you're married and want to make your relationship better, or you're single and want to meet more people, you CAN develop the skills to make that happen, when you decide to learn & apply what we're teaching.
In fact every situation in which you're dealing with people can be dramatically improved. How? You'll have more fun, less stress, and... a more playful-yet-confident attitude. You'll more easily make new friends and have better relationships with anyone and everyone. Now, this is not a magic bullet where after a few hours of watching a DVD, you'll suddenly be a wizard -- that would be silly & unrealistic -- however we aim to catapult you through a vast array of information, experiences & empowering beliefs, that will help you develop the confidence and framework for using these skills to enrich your life... starting with the moment you begin to test out our ideas and instructions. It truly is an enjoyable, eye-opening, life-changing and also FUN process!
Now You Can More Easily Attract Anyone You Want!!!
Imagine yourself being surprisingly confident in any social situation. Perhaps in an intimate 1-on-1 encounter, or maybe telling a story with a group of people as your captive audience. Others may comment that you seem to have a magical spark about you. You'll just naturally radiate the type of energy that almost magnetically attracts others to you.
How good would it feel to be able to easily approach an attractive member of the opposite sex? How many opportunities are you missing each day right now because you let fear or hesitation stop you? Or maybe you just don't feel totally confident, because you don't yet know the secrets of flirting.
Take eye contact for example. If you don't understand how to connect with somebody before you ever speak a word, you may never get a second chance with them.
In this special DVD-set program, now ANYONE can grab the opportunity to get these skills from 2 world-class trainers on flirting and communication skills. This is one of the most positively impactful programs ever taught on the subject of flirting.
If Being Shy Was a Problem for you in the Past.....Consider This...
This video-set may be the most powerful opportunity available for SHY people. We know that if you're shy, you might not actually ATTEND an event like this due to the social pressure you might think you'd feel by coming to a public seminar. But that's not an issue at all with home-study programs!
Our personal opinion: If anyone amongst you has been called (or calls yourself) a "social phobic", we don't think any of you are worth calling "social phobics." You're worth *too much* for that, and you're *too unique* for that. The owners of this website don't believe in labels. Especially because each of you probably experiences behavioral or cognitive patterns that are different from other people's patterns -- that play out differently in different situations. And the so-called experts have grouped you all together so that they can simplify things for themselves (and thereby complicate their ability to help you).
Those trained in NLP believe the licensed "therapists" aren't really well-trained to help you quickly (maybe slowly & gently). We think they're stuck in a well-meaning, yet outdated model for change. We believe that learning NLP helps us take control over our own brains & minds, and reach for what we want.
So for anyone who thinks they've been shy in the past, even anyone previously-labeled as a "social-phobic", we recommend you consider our FLIRTOPIA! DVD-set. With a satisfaction guarantee, you have nothing to lose -- and everything to gain. At home, you can study our DVDs and make progress at YOUR OWN PREFERRED rate. Shyness is not a reason to avoid learning what was trained at FLIRTOPIA, now that we have the FLIRTOPIA DVDs! Learn & Benefit in the comfort of your own home!!!
You'll Find Out How to:
- Understand How The Opposite Sex Flirts Differently Than You Do
- Develop Your Own Personal Style Of Flirting
- Rapidly Snap Into A Peak Emotional State To Attract Others To You
- Move Your Body To Be More Sexy
- Make New Friends Easily
- Develop Rapport So Powerful, You'll Feel Like You've Known People Their Entire Lives!
- Break Any Limiting Beliefs You May Have About Flirting
No Boring Classroom Lectures Here! Instead, Be a Virtual Attendee at a Dynamic and Fun FLIRTOPIA Seminar -- Where You'll Learn Multiple Ways To Improve & Learn Differently!
You'll more easily learn the material because it's not presented in a formal, boring, classroom approach. Most people forget 90% of the material when it's presented that way. No, in this program you'll learn by doing things in a variety of ways. You'll get plenty of chances to practice these skills in a safe environment. After these 3 days you will be well on your way to being a master flirt. You'll never be the same again. NOTE: For videoset viewers, these results require taking an active approach to the learning! We can't babysit DVD-set viewers! We encourage small groups to watch the program & do the exercises together!
The program starts with you. You'll discover how you can be yourself more easily around others. And how to naturally let that radiate outward. You'll also find out how to get yourself into a peak state for meeting others. And you'll shatter any limiting beliefs you may have had in the past about flirting.
From there you will continue to discover one practical skill after another. Each one stacking upon the previous one to compound your success. By the end of the program you will have an entire "tool kit" of skills, strategies, and tools to use whenever you like.
You're probably wondering about the details of this opportunity. In just a moment I'll tell you how you can get your hands on the FLIRTOPIA™ DVD-set. But first you might want to know more about the credentials of our world-class flirting experts.
2 renowned Trainers On NLP & Flirting Reveal All Their Secrets!
Your Host is Jonathan Altfeld, trainer of NLP, & founder of the Mastery InSight Institute. Jonathan has trained a variety of seminars on self-improvement & communication skills around the globe since mid-1997. He's trained in over 50 cities across 3 continents, to a huge variety of people interested in sharpening their communication skills to a results-driven, honed, razor-sharp edge!
Your Hostess is 'Flirtcoach' Peta Heskell, who runs the Attraction Academy! She's a licensed trainer of NLP, former assistant editor of Forum, Liberty Radio's life enhancement expert, and author of multiple books on Flirting (including Flirt Coach and The Flirt Coach's Guide to finding the Love you Want). She brought to FLIRTOPIA her many years of experience as a trainer/facilitator and a flirt.
The first 5 discs are collectively called "Set A" and feature Jonathan & Peta working both together and individually.
Video Samples for Jonathan & Peta
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This clip features NLP Trainer Jonathan Altfeld training the Flirtopia attendees about using pattern interrupts in flirting! This is a FLASH video. If you don't see play-control buttons at the bottom of this embedded video clip, then you'll need to move your mouse inside the box, click your right-mouse-button, and select "Show All." |
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Watch Flirtcoach Peta Heskell teaching how to become aware of how we hold ourselves, physiologically or somatically when we're at our best. Here she sets up a shamanic exercise on "power animals" to help bring out optimal aspects of each other. This is a FLASH video. If you don't see play-control buttons, then move your mouse inside the box, click the right mouse-button, & select "Show All." |
Check out this Very Special Guest!
Jonathan and Peta invited Anne Teachworth, CGT, CPC, FAPA, and Director of the Gestalt Institute of New Orleans, to speak for several hours at Flirtopia!
Anne is the author of "Why We Pick the Mates We Do" and has devised a method of determining our 'pre-programmed' relationship patterns based on insight gained from our parents' behaviors & roles, as well as insight into how to break free of any unresourceful patterns.
Additionally, in 1987, Anne taught Flirting workshops with NLP's co-founder, Richard Bandler, which resulted in a 90-minute recording now famous in NLP circles.
We brought Anne in to train a combination of Flirting skills, and some of her unique work on relationship patterns. The final 2 discs in Flirtopia are collectively known as "Set B" and feature Anne Teachworth only. You can either get "Set A" or "Set B" or the "full Flirtopia set."
The "first-buyer" bonus incentives are only offered to people buying both Sets A & B of the Flirtopia collection.
Here's a Video Clip of Anne Teachworth at FLIRTOPIA!
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Here Anne Teachworth suggests why we shouldn't "try to be cool" or use "pickup lines," gives us her definition of flirting, and helps us improve our greetings. This is a FLASH video. If you don't see play-control buttons at the bottom of this embedded video clip, then you'll need to move your mouse inside the box, click your right-mouse-button, and select "Show All." |
As If All This Material Wasn't Enough Content for a Videoset, You'll Also Learn Ways To:
- Approach Someone So That They Are More Likely To Listen To You
- Use Language To Capture And Lead People's Imagination... So They Feel Good And Want To Make You Feel Good!
- Ask Questions That Make Conversation Easier
- Use Rejection To Make You More Successful
- Overcome Shyness!
- Identify and Solve Many of Your 'pre-programmed' Relationship Problems!
BONUS INCENTIVE for buyers of either Set A (alone) or Both Sets A & B together!
FOR THE MOMENT... Jonathan Altfeld is giving away to buyers of "Flirtopia DVD Set A" (alone or together with Set B) a free copy of his $99 3-CD-Set "Charisma Fuel." This 2.5 hour recording is still "raw/unedited" from an evening event exploring an alternative model for becoming more charismatic & charming -- and has been sold in the past for $99 at workshops around the globe.
We're extending this Bonus Offer beyond the first 100 buyers, for NOW, for the moment. We may remove this incentive at any point; it could happen tomorrow. Don't wait -- act now. When this is gone from this webpage - no more free copies of "Charisma Fuel" will be extended.
Here's what FLIRTOPIA™ Seminar Attendees wrote:
Keep in mind, this is what students wrote to us about the *workshop*, not about the videos:
I got at least 25,000 frequent flier miles out of my first two hours after the training! |
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What I got from my first two hours after Flirtopia: I sat next to a flight attendant on the way back home, & had tremendous fun chatting with her with just one outcome in mind - I wanted her to feel really good! I found myself really enjoying using what I had learned over the weekend, & I could tell that she was getting a LOT of energy out of it - even though I established early in the conversation that we were both married, just to be safe (hanky-panky is a kind of pollution I could live without right now). It was a great conversation that made me feel really connected with a person I wouldn't ordinarily talk to, but the great part happened as we were getting off the plane. She reached in her bag & took out her book of frequent flyer coupons (the kind they give passengers when they want to appease them) she had, & very generously gave them to me - every single one. I was blown away! So I got at least 25,000 frequent flier miles out of my first two hours after the training - & I made this woman very happy in the bargain! What a hoot... I wanted you to know that I really enjoyed the company of the instructors & assistants. They were all tremendous, & really added a lot to the learning. As I left the hotel Sunday evening, I thought to myself that these are the kind of people I really enjoy having in my life. Generous, helpful, skilled & fun-loving are words that come to my mind to describe the members of your team. - R.B. Management Consultant, Michigan |
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FTC Testimonial Compliance: The typical customer cannot expect to receive booklets of frequent flyer miles coupons! Many of our students after the course did report interesting and often dramatically different responses from people of the opposite sex, within hours and weeks of the course. And while we have received positive comments about these DVDs (from when they were released as videos), we do not yet know what specific results customers have gained from the videos -- and will happily publish those comments as they come in. |
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Flirtopia counts as one of the most important transitions in my life. |
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When I grew up we moved frequently, which hindered my ability to develop social skills. As I grew up I was always shy around strangers. I felt anxious whenever meeting any new people, especially women. What would I say? What happens when the conversation dies? I would hang on to anyone who showed even the slightest interest in me, so in dating, I often "settled" for less optimal situations, in exchange for even the most minimal acceptance from others. After I attended the Flirtopia seminar, I rapidly began to feel more comfortable in any social situation. I developed better people-reading skills and new behavioral choices. I now have tools for more effectively communicating with others. Now I find there is so much more to life. More doors have opened through becoming more social, and most importantly, I was ready and able to choose a woman who enjoys my company, and we enjoy a far richer relationship than I'd originally dreamed possible. As I look back in my life, without attending Flirtopia in 2000, I know I would either be alone, or with people who not only would tolerate my shyness but eventually become bored with it, and take advantage of me. While there've been many events that have helped mold me... Flirtopia counts as one of the most important transitions in my life. Thank you Jonathan & Peta & Anne! - Mike Wilson, Home Inspector, Ace Inspections LLP, Bismarck ND P.S., After the workshop, I bought the FLIRTOPIA videos, which served as a great reminder for some of my amazing memories. It was a great videoset, but the audio quality of the low-quality VHS tapes could have been better. So I'm really excited to see the new DVD re-release! |
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FTC Testimonial Compliance: Mike Wilson (who paid in full for the original seminar AND the original VHS videoset) will receive a free copy of the DVD-set release in thanks for his testimonial. The typical customer should not expect to exactly duplicate Mike's results from the live seminar. Nor should any typical customers expect to view the videos and "instantly" get any results without any effort expended to practice the material. We believe typical customers who DO go out & practice what is taught in these dvds, can expect to measurably improve the quality of the communication they experience with other people. We're teaching soft skills here, which means, learn new ideas, go out and practice them behaviorally, and that usually leads to measurable improvements with others! |
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helped me to open up & communicate with women ... so much more fun this way! |
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The FLIRTOPIA! seminar really helped me to open up & communicate with women on a sincere level, daring to express myself to be me. It is so much more fun this way. And that is what I value most. The freedom to be myself. - P.H. IT Consultant |
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FTC Testimonial Compliance: We believe the typical customer (male or female -- this is a gender-neutral workshop!!) who does the recommended exercise drills in the video AND goes out into the world to practice what's taught -- CAN expect these same results in terms of improved communication skills, as well as a greater sense of freedom and fun while flirting. |
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FLIRTOPIA™ DVD-set Video Production Quality
To put it bluntly, given that these were recorded in 2000, you'll be impressed with the video footage. It's not HD, but then nobody had HD at the time! The room was well lit, and we used all-digital video recording & editing. The new DVDs are mastered from digital originals. So your copy will look like a 1st generation copy from master footage taken in 2000.
Some words about "IMPERFECT AUDIO QUALITY..."
If you're HIGHLY SENSITIVE to audio quality -- needing it perfectly mastered -- this set is probably not for you. Just being honest here!
This seminar was very hard to record properly on audio given the size of the room, and given the variety of different seating arrangements and activities. We did a reasonable job with wireless mics, but there were definitely times when we were challenged with audio issues during editing the original master videotapes.
The audio quality however is far better on these DVDs than it was with the original VHS copies we made. And the speakers during the entire seminar are audible at all times. However:
- You may need to play this DVD set at a higher volume than when you watch other TV shows/dvd's.
- Some of the students' quick answers to our questions are not always easy to hear.
- You WILL need to keep the remote handy, with which to adjust the volume up/down periodically.
- At various places in the recording, there was enough undesireable noise in the background, that in order to make Speakers' words audible, we had to do a lot of noise reduction, which changes the tone/quality of some voices at times.
If you were to buy this recording expecting perfect audio, you would NOT be satisfied.
If however you buy this recording exclusively for the quality of the ideas, the techniques, the exercise drills, and the primary messages taught, AND you're willing to test out our material, then we think you'll be immensely pleased with your purchase -- and the results we'll help you achieve!!!
100% Money-Back Guarantee on the DVD's!
FLIRTOPIA™ DVD-set Refund Policy: We'll honor/provide a 1-year money-back guarantee on these DVD's.
Keep in mind -- our guarantee applies ONLY to your latest purchase(s) up to $350 at a time (buying $350 of home-study material from us, then buying another $350, and then trying to return everything, will not be honored (we only honor product guarantees up to $350 at a time). If you buy one product for $289, then come back in 1 month to order 2 new products for $280 total, the guarantee expires early on the first product, and the new guarantee then applies for 1 year on the 2nd purchase. For more details on our terms/policies, click here.
Are there reasons why I shouldn't get the DVDs?
Perhaps! You probably shouldn't buy if you...
- Aren't willing to test the material from the DVDs out in real life
- Don't have the time to watch at least an hour or two per week
- Don't believe emotional state control/management is a useful skillset
- Get easily offended by occasional off-color words
"The Flirtopia DVD's" may be one of the best all-purpose general NLP & communication skills DVD-sets available on the market, not to mention an excellent Flirting Skills primer! And as with anything, your results will be optimal if you go in with an open mind, a sense of fun & adventure, and a willingness to try at least some of our strange ideas out in the real world!
Finally, these have been re-released these on DVD -- so customers will receive Digital Copies of a Digitally-Recorded (miniDV) seminar! The quality of these DVDs is MUCH better than the quality of the original VHS tapes we'd made in 2001, and discontinued in 2005.
Thank you for visiting to learn about our exciting re-release on DVD's!

Jonathan Altfeld
Mastery InSight Institute of NLP
Scotland, PA 17254
(PS) Yes, we now have a Pennsylvania address, but this business is still legally based in Florida (and we have not given up our Tampa address yet, legally). So we still charge sales tax on shipments to Florida addresses.
Here's How to Get Your DVDs!
(Careful, there are multiple purchase options!)
Here are the FLIRTOPIA! DVD-Set Options:
- Set A comes with 5 DVD discs featuring 7+ hours of training material with Jonathan Altfeld & Peta Heskell (only). Set A costs $224 plus shipping (& sales tax in FL). (And for a limited time, for the first 100 buyers, buying Set A (alone or with Set B) get you both bonus gifts worth $118 together!)
- Set B comes with 2 DVD discs featuring 3 hours of training material with Anne Teachworth (only). Set B costs $89 plus shipping (& sales tax in FL).
- Both Sets together cost $313 plus shipping (& 7% sales tax in FL).
You are welcome to buy just Set A, Just Set B, or both together, as you like.
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